Talk to an astrologer about love and relationships
An ex, a partner who will not commit, parents who say no, or a love that has not arrived yet: what an astrologer reads for each, and what no reading can do.
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We broke up four months ago and I still think about him every day. My friends say move on. Can you look at my chart and tell me what is going on in my love life?
I can look at it with you. Please share your date, time and place of birth. In Vedic astrology I first read your 7th house, Venus and the Moon, then the dasha you are running now. I cannot decide anything for him, but I can show you what your own chart says about this period.
Short answer
You can talk to an astrologer about a love problem by chat or call, with your birth details ready. In Vedic astrology the astrologer reads the 7th house, Venus and the Moon, the running dasha, and the partner's chart if you have their details. Many also use tarot or prashna for questions about now. On Kismo, verified astrologers answer online from anywhere in India and abroad.
What are the key facts about love?
| Answer | |
|---|---|
| What it covers | An ex, family opposition, commitment, cheating, compatibility, long distance, one-sided love and finding love |
| Who asks | Singles, couples, people after a breakup, and people whose families object to their partner |
| What an astrologer checks | The 7th house, Venus, the Moon, the running dasha, and both charts when there is a partner |
| Other methods | Prashna (a chart for the moment you ask) and tarot, for questions about the present |
| What to bring | Your date, time and place of birth, and your partner's if you know them |
| Price on Kismo | From ₹15 a minute, one rate for chat and call; the first session carries 5 free minutes, no card needed |
| Where | Online, from anywhere in India and abroad, in 16+ languages |
What does an astrologer check for a love question?
An astrologer checks a few fixed parts of the birth chart for almost every love question, then adds a second chart or a question chart. Kismo is an app where you talk to verified Vedic astrologers by chat or call, in 16 languages.
- The 7th house comes first for any partner question. Brihat Parashara Hora Shastra, chapter 11, verse 8, lists the spouse among the matters of the 7th house 1.
- The 5th house is read for the heart's choices by many modern astrologers. The classical verse for it, chapter 11, verse 6, lists learning, intelligence and children instead 1.
- Venus is the planet of the partner and of pleasure. Phaladeepika, chapter 15, verse 16, makes Venus the significator of the wife, ornaments and enjoyment 2.
- The Moon shows the state of the mind and the bond with the mother. Phaladeepika, chapter 15, verse 15, makes the Moon the significator of the mother 2.
- For a question about now, some astrologers cast a prashna chart for the moment the question is asked. Prasna Marga, a 17th-century Sanskrit text, is the classical work on this method 3.
Which love problems can an astrologer help with?
- Getting an ex back
For an ex: the astrologer reads your own period and choices; the other person's decision stays theirs, and no reading can change it.
- Family opposition
For parents who say no: the astrologer reads both charts and the family houses, next to the legal facts and a calm plan to talk.
- Love or arranged marriage
For which way you marry: astrologers look at links between the houses of romance and marriage, and never treat them as a verdict.
- Marital problems
For a marriage under strain: the astrologer looks at the running periods of both partners, alongside a counsellor.
- Compatibility with partner
For how two people fit: Moon signs, nakshatras and the guna score, plus each person's 7th house and Venus.
- One-sided love
For love that is not returned: the reading is about your own chart and how to move forward, never about changing the other person.
- Will he commit
For a partner who will not commit: the astrologer reads your chart and, with consent, theirs, then talks about timing and honest conversation.
- Partner cheating
For suspected cheating: talk to the partner or a counsellor first; an astrologer can only read your own chart and period.
- When will I find love
For love that has not arrived: the dasha and transits over the 7th house and Venus suggest periods astrologers link with meeting someone.
- Long-distance relationship
For two cities or two countries: astrologers read the houses of travel and residence next to the 7th house.
- Age gap relationship
For a big age difference: the chart describes the kind of partner, while family worries are a separate, practical talk.
- Situationship
For something undefined: a prashna or tarot reading for right now often fits better than a long birth-chart reading.
- Does he love me
For mixed signals: no chart reads another person's mind, so the session looks at your own feelings and what to ask him.
- Should I break up
For a hard decision: the astrologer reads the period you are in, and the choice stays with you and the people you trust.
- Soulmate
For the idea of a soulmate: astrologers read the 7th house, Venus and some use the darakaraka; no text names one fated person.
What do young people in India face around love and dating?
Many young Indians still keep a romance quiet at home. In the 2016 CSDS-KAS youth survey of 6,122 people aged 15 to 34 in 19 states, 53% disapproved of dating before marriage 4. Two in three, 67%, disapproved of live-in relationships 4.
Breakups often do not stay final. René Dailey's research at the University of Texas finds that about two-thirds of people have had at least one on-again, off-again relationship 5. Such relationships go through two to three renewals on average 5.
A breakup hurts most people, women a little more. In a survey of 5,705 people in 96 countries, women rated the emotional pain of their last breakup 6.84 out of 10, men 6.58 6. Women rated the physical pain 4.21, men 3.75 6. The same researchers report that women tend to recover more fully over time 6.
Before you pay anyone
How do you know an astrologer is genuine?
- Every Kismo astrologer passes four steps: qualification review, panel interview, live audits of real sessions, 30-day probation.
- Nobody can guarantee an outcome. Treat any promise of a fixed result as a red flag.
- Never pay for an expensive puja or ritual under pressure. Get a second opinion first.
- On Kismo you only pay for the minutes you use; misconduct, pressure or a request for money outside the app is handled by a person.
Which astrologers can I talk to about love?
- Jyothsna Gosala
Tarot Reading, Life Coach · 1 yrs
English, Telugu, Hindi
★ 4.5 · 5,992 orders · ₹25/min
How does a consultation on Kismo work?
- Log in on kismo.app or get the app from Google Play.
- Pick an astrologer who speaks your language and works with your question.
- Share your date, time and place of birth.
- Ask by chat or call. The first session carries 5 free minutes, then each minute is billed from your wallet.
Questions worth asking in the session
- Which dasha am I running now, and how do you read it for love?
- What do my 7th house and Venus show about the kind of partner I am drawn to?
- How do our two charts compare, beyond the guna score?
- Is my question better read from my birth chart or from a prashna chart?
- What can I do myself in this period, without paying for any ritual?
What should I know before booking a session about love?
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| What does a session cost? | Each astrologer sets one rate for chat and call, from ₹15 a minute. A 10-minute session at ₹15 a minute costs ₹150 (October 2026). |
| Is the first session free? | 5 free minutes on the first session, no card. |
| Chat or call? | Both. You choose when you start the session. |
| Do I need an exact birth time? | It helps. Without one an astrologer can still read your Moon sign and planets by sign, or work out the time with you. |
| Is my chat private? | Your chat is not shown to other clients. How Kismo handles your data is set out in its privacy policy at kismo.app/privacy. |
| What if I am not happy? | There is no refund for a reading you did not like. Misconduct, pressure or a request for money outside Kismo is handled by a person. |
| Where does it work? | Online, from anywhere in India and abroad. People use Kismo from 80+ countries. |
What else do people ask an astrologer about?
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Questions people ask
Can I talk to an astrologer about my love life online?
Yes. A love reading needs only your birth details, so it works fully online by chat or call. You can talk to an astrologer about love on Kismo, where verified Vedic astrologers answer in 16+ languages, from anywhere in India and abroad. Keep your date, time and place of birth ready, and your partner's if you know them.
Can an astrologer bring my ex back or make someone love me?
No. No astrologer can make another person love you or return, and anyone who claims this is selling something. The other person's choices are their own. An astrologer can read your chart for the period you are in, help you understand your own patterns, and talk about timing for your own next steps. Walk away from offers of vashikaran or spells.
What is the difference between a love reading from my kundli and from tarot?
A kundli reading uses your fixed birth chart and the running dasha, so it speaks about patterns and periods. Tarot is not part of Vedic astrology; a tarot reader draws cards for a question about the present. Many people use tarot for feelings and choices now, and the birth chart for timing and compatibility. Neither can promise an outcome.
Can love astrology work with only my date of birth?
Partly. The date gives the Moon sign, the nakshatra in most cases, and the slow planets, so an astrologer can read Venus and the broad period you are in. The houses, including the 7th, need the birth time. If you do not know it, an astrologer can use a prashna chart for the moment you ask, or try birth time rectification.
Is a love reading on Kismo paid per minute, and is any of it free?
Yes, a love reading on Kismo is paid per started minute, and your first session carries 5 free minutes with no card needed. Each astrologer sets one rate for chat and call, from ₹15 a minute. You pay from a wallet with a minimum top-up of ₹100, and only the minutes you use are charged.
How do I spot a fake love problem astrologer?
A fake love astrologer promises a result, names a date your partner returns, or asks for money for a puja, tabeez or vashikaran. A genuine one explains what the chart shows and says what it cannot show. Never pay large sums under pressure, and never share money outside the app. Get a second opinion before paying for any ritual.
My partner is cheating or hurting me. Should I ask an astrologer?
Talk to a person you trust and a counsellor first; an astrologer is not the right first step for cheating or abuse. If you are in danger, call 112, India's emergency number, or 181, the women helpline 7. For separation or divorce, follow a lawyer's advice. A reading can come later, if it helps you think about your own path.
Which planet is responsible for love in a horoscope?
Venus is the planet most astrologers read for love and attraction. Phaladeepika makes Venus the significator of the wife and of enjoyment 2. Astrologers then read Venus with the 7th house, the Moon and the running dasha, because one planet alone does not describe a relationship.
Talk to an astrologer about love
Kismo is an app where you talk to verified Vedic astrologers by chat or call, in 16 languages.
On an iPhone, log in on kismo.app in your browser.
Where do these facts come from?
- Brihat Parashara Hora Shastra, chapter 11: judgement of houses, verses 1-16, Enjoy Learning Sanskrit. Accessed .
- Phaladeepika by Mantreswara, chapter 15: method of studying the effects of the bhavas (tr. V. Subrahmanya Sastri, 1950), Wisdom Library. Accessed .
- Prasna Marga: English translation, with original text in Devanagari, and notes (B. V. Raman, Motilal Banarsidass, 1991-1992), Wellcome Collection. Accessed .
- Young Indians are homophobic, misogynist and orthodox, says CSDS survey (CSDS-KAS youth survey 2016), The News Minute. Accessed .
- On-Again, Off-Again Relationships, chapter 1: Description and Prevalence of On-Again/Off-Again Relationships (René M. Dailey, 2019), Cambridge University Press. Accessed .
- Study: women hurt more by breakups but recover more fully (Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences, 2015), Binghamton University via Newswise. Accessed .
- India's Commitment to Women's Safety (Ministry of Women and Child Development, 29 March 2025), Press Information Bureau, Government of India. Accessed .
