He stopped texting me: talk to an astrologer about your next step, not his phone
When the messages stop without a word, the hardest part is not knowing, and a reading can only help with your side of that.
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He used to text me good morning every day. For ten days now he barely replies, and today nothing at all. Did he stop loving me?
Ten days of silence after daily messages is painful. I cannot see why he went quiet, and his choice is his. I can read your chart and current period and help you decide what to do while you wait. May I have your birth details?
Short answer
When he stops texting, no chart can tell you what he feels or whether he plans to write again. His choice to go quiet is his, and it stands. An astrologer can read your Mercury, Moon and 7th house and your current period, and help you decide how long to wait. On Kismo, verified astrologers help by chat or call, online from anywhere.
What are the key facts about does he love me?
| Answer | |
|---|---|
| The situation | He used to text often and has gone quiet, slow or silent, with no clear reason |
| Other names | Ghosting, fading, going silent; in Hindi, baat karna band kar diya |
| How common ghosting is | About 1 in 5 young adults said they were ghosted in the past year, in one 2020 study 1 |
| What an astrologer checks | Your Mercury for communication, your Moon, your 7th house and your running dasha 3 |
| What a reading cannot do | Say whether he writes again, or bring him back |
| Session on Kismo | From ₹15 a minute, 5 free minutes in the first session, online from anywhere in India and abroad |
What does an astrologer check when he stops texting?
- Mercury in your chart. Brihat Parashara Hora Shastra 3.12 names Mercury as the giver of speech, so astrologers read it for how you communicate and wait for replies 3.
- Your Moon. Many astrologers read the Moon for how hard the silence hits you, and what helps you settle.
- Your 7th house and its lord. These describe how you relate to a partner, which frames the question better than his phone does.
- Your running dasha. The astrologer looks at whether this is read as a quiet or active period for relationships in your life.
- Prashna, if you lack a birth time. A chart cast for the moment you ask can help with one clear question, such as whether to reach out.
What changes the answer when he stops texting?
- Whether he still replies a little. Slow, short replies are a fade; total silence and blocked chats are a clear choice to step away.
- How long you were together. A few weeks of chatting ends differently from a relationship where families knew.
- Whether something happened first. Silence after a fight is covered on the after a fight page; silence out of nowhere needs a different talk.
- Whether you already asked him. One direct, calm question gives him room to answer; repeated messages rarely help.
How common is it for someone to stop texting without explanation?
Someone going silent without explanation, called ghosting, is common. In a 2020 study of 626 Spanish adults aged 18 to 40, 19.3% said they had been ghosted in the past year, and 23.2% had ghosted someone 1. So people who ghost are not rare outliers; many have done it.
Earlier US studies found similar shares. The same paper reports a 2019 US sample of 554 adults where 25.3% had been ghosted and 21.3% had ghosted a partner 1. Across the studies it reviewed, being ghosted ranged from 13% to 25% 1.
| Finding | Number | Source |
|---|---|---|
| Ghosted in the past 12 months, Spain, ages 18 to 40 | 19.3% of 626 | 1 |
| Ghosted someone in the past 12 months | 23.2% | 1 |
| Ghosted more than 5 times in a year | 2.9% | 1 |
| Partnered adults who felt closer through texts | 21% | 2 |
| Partnered phone users whose partner seemed distracted by the phone | 25% | 2 |
Texting often carries closeness, which is why its loss hurts. In a US survey, 21% of adults in relationships said online or text exchanges had made them feel closer 2. When those messages stop, the gap feels larger than a missed call.
Kismo is an app where you talk to verified Vedic astrologers by chat or call, in 16 languages. An astrologer there can read your chart and timing and help you choose when to stop waiting. An astrologer cannot read his reasons, make him write, or track what he is doing; if he has blocked you, that choice stands.
What should I do in the days after he stops texting?
Day 1 to 3
Give it space. Check whether something happened on his side, such as exams, work or family, before reading it as rejection.
Around day 4
Send one calm, direct message, for example asking if everything is all right between you. Then stop sending more.
Week 2
If there is still no reply, treat the silence as his answer for now. A reading can help you plan your own next weeks.
After a month
Turn the focus fully to your own life. If the silence still takes over your days, talk to a friend or a counsellor.
What do people get wrong about this?
Belief: Only cruel people ghost.
In one 2020 study, 23.2% of adults aged 18 to 40 had ghosted someone in the past year, more than the 19.3% who had been ghosted 1.
Belief: A ritual or mantra can make him text again.
No ritual can control another person's choice. Whether he writes is up to him, and honest astrologers say so.
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How does a consultation on Kismo work?
- Log in on kismo.app or get the app from Google Play.
- Pick an astrologer who speaks your language and works with your question.
- Share your date, time and place of birth.
- Ask by chat or call. The first session carries 5 free minutes, then each minute is billed from your wallet.
Questions worth asking in the session
- How do you read Mercury and the Moon in my chart?
- Is my current dasha a period for waiting, or for moving on?
- Would a prashna chart help me decide whether to message him?
- What can I focus on in my own life over the next month?
What should I know before booking a session about does he love me?
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| What does a session cost? | Each astrologer sets one rate for chat and call, from ₹15 a minute. A 10-minute session at ₹15 a minute costs ₹150 (October 2026). |
| Is the first session free? | 5 free minutes on the first session, no card. |
| Chat or call? | Both. You choose when you start the session. |
| Do I need an exact birth time? | It helps. Without one an astrologer can still read your Moon sign and planets by sign, or work out the time with you. |
| Is my chat private? | Your chat is not shown to other clients. How Kismo handles your data is set out in its privacy policy at kismo.app/privacy. |
| What if I am not happy? | There is no refund for a reading you did not like. Misconduct, pressure or a request for money outside Kismo is handled by a person. |
| Where does it work? | Online, from anywhere in India and abroad. People use Kismo from 80+ countries. |
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Questions people ask
Why did he stop texting me all of a sudden?
He may have stopped texting because of stress, confusion, another person, or a wish to end things without a hard talk. Only he knows which, but it does mean he has chosen to pull back for now. A chart cannot read his reasons, so the useful question is what you want to do while he is silent.
Should I text him first after he stopped texting?
One calm, direct message is reasonable, especially if you are unsure what happened. Ask simply whether things are all right between you, then give him time. Sending many messages usually adds pain without bringing answers. If he has blocked you, do not try other numbers or accounts; his choice to stop contact stands.
Can astrology or tarot tell if he will text me again?
No. Neither astrology nor tarot can predict another person's choice to write, and anyone who promises a date is guessing. An astrologer can read your Mercury, Moon and current period, or cast a prashna chart for your question. That helps you decide how long to wait and how to spend that time.
Is ghosting a sign of Mercury retrograde?
No reliable link exists between Mercury retrograde and someone ghosting you, and classical Vedic texts do not make that claim. Many astrologers read Mercury for communication in your own chart, not as a cause of his silence. People ghost for personal reasons such as avoiding a hard conversation.
Is he losing interest or just busy? How long should I wait?
Silence alone cannot show whether he is losing interest or just busy, and many people find a week or two after one calm message is enough to know where things stand. Beyond that, waiting tends to hurt more than it helps. Set your own time limit, and fill those days with friends, work or study. A reading can point to periods astrologers read as steadier for you.
How much does it cost to ask an astrologer why he stopped texting, on Kismo?
A 10-minute question about why he stopped texting costs ₹150 at the lowest rate on Kismo, where astrologers set one rate for chat and call from ₹15 a minute (October 2026). The first session carries 5 free minutes, no card needed. A wallet top-up starts at ₹100, and only the minutes you use are charged.
An astrologer offered to find out who he is talking to now. Is that okay?
No. Tracking someone, reading their messages or finding out who they talk to is not something an honest astrologer offers, and it does not respect his privacy. Treat such offers, and any request for money for rituals, as red flags. On Kismo, pressure or requests for money outside the app are handled by a person as misconduct.
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Where do these facts come from?
- Ghosting and breadcrumbing: prevalence and association with online dating behavior among young adults (Navarro, Larrañaga, Yubero and Víllora, 2020), Escritos de Psicología 13(2), via Redalyc. Accessed .
- Couples, the internet, and social media, Pew Research Center, 11 February 2014. Accessed .
- Brihat Parashara Hora Shastra, chapter 3 (planets), verse 12, Enjoy Learning Sanskrit. Accessed .
